5 Rules for Life PDF

5 Rules for Life PDF

These 5 rules are slightly modified statements from Richard Rohr and can be found in his book Adam’s Return. Download the PDF here =>   5 Rules Life.PDF Don’t forget to check out my books. If this post and video resonated with you, you’ll love...
On men who are empaths and Highly Sensitive People… like me.

On men who are empaths and Highly Sensitive People… like me.

“Do you see words, like subtitles, over people’s heads when they talk?” A friend recently asked. “No.” I replied, wondering what she was talking about. “I do,” she said. “I just thought everyone did. I worked out it’s a thing called synesthesia. It’s a brain thing...
There is no Severance for Small Business

There is no Severance for Small Business

I spent several hours this week interviewing small business owners for my doctoral research. I also started watching the Apple TV series Severance, a show that explores what it would be like if you came to work with no memories and feelings from your outside life and...
Are you an Elder? Or an Older? There is a difference.

Are you an Elder? Or an Older? There is a difference.

We need to move beyond thinking of ‘elders’ in terms of age. There are 35-year-olds with more emotional and spiritual maturity than 70-year-olds.  It’s good to know the difference between ‘elders’ and ‘olders’. Becoming an ‘older’ is a default passive event....
Grief has a home in God… even subtle ambigious loss.

Grief has a home in God… even subtle ambigious loss.

We live with grief much more than we think. At times she arrives in our driveway with a screeching halt, slams her door so loud it echoes down the street, and bangs on the front door with just enough force to keep it from shattering. When she comes like this, we know...
‘Thirsty’  A Christmas poem

‘Thirsty’ A Christmas poem

Every December I work towards crafting a Christmas poem that pushes against the sanitised ‘Hallmark Christmas’ guff that fills envelopes and cliche’. Every year I return to the fragility and vulnerability of the incarnation and the chaotic commonness...
When teachers bless the kids in class…

When teachers bless the kids in class…

“The blessing is everyone’s birthright, not a reward!” I announced. Some truths are bittersweet; this is one of them.Years ago I was asked to run a workshop on Creating a Culture of Blessing for the teachers and staff at a Christian school. As we made our way...
Sorry Pastor, you must not wrestle with your faith or deconstruct.

Sorry Pastor, you must not wrestle with your faith or deconstruct.

Over the years, I have had more than a few coffees and phone calls with local church pastors struggling with elements of their personal faith. People have confessed how incredibly torn they are inside because their make jobs make change incredibly difficult. Many felt...
Metapastors Break Moulds

Metapastors Break Moulds

Some more thoughts around metapastoring… I asked ChatGPT, Gemini and Grok to ‘Create an image of a Pastor helping someone in grief.’ You can see the images attached. To be honest, I was glad they weren’t all middle-aged white guys. Gemini (owned by Google)...
The Rise of the Metapastor

The Rise of the Metapastor

I have been trying to put words to an emerging company of people I keep encountering. And in this short essay I will do my best to unpack some core thoughts around what I am witnessing, and daringly, give it a name – metapastoring. Many would shudder at the...
Who is the wealthiest person here? Maslow’s generous suprise

Who is the wealthiest person here? Maslow’s generous suprise

“Who is the wealthiest person here?” This is the question, Abraham Maslow, the researcher behind Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs asked those in the Blackfoot tribe in the 1930s. Maslow lived with this First Nations tribe for six weeks to see if his...