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Decenter Everything. The Unconventional Approach to Eldering in an Age of Immaturity
Humankind has not been here before. We are now living decades longer than our ancestors. We have never been healthier, wealthier, and soul-stunted. In the West, we have an abundance of older people, but very few authentic elders.
Decenter Everything dares us to question the conventional script of later life that drifts from parenting to retirement to death. For the sake of the world, we must mature towards authentic eldering through intentional displacement; this means decentering anything that demands center-stage – including ourselves.
Through poetry, prose, research, and reflection Decenter Everything proposes five domains requiring decentering: God, being heard, knowledge, death, and consumption. For anyone sensing the hollowness of our elderless culture, here lies a provocative path to reimagining a soulful and sustainable future.
Chapters:
Introduction
Beyond Age and Office
The Great Interruption
False North
Decenter God
Decenter Being Heard
Decenter Knowing
Decenter Death
Decenter Consumption
Where to from here?
+ There are 7 reflection questions following each chapter, making it perfect for discussion groups.
Pages: 152
ISBN: 9780645607246
Authors referenced:
Stephen Jenkinson, Dr. Bill Plotkin, Carl Jung, Riane Eisler, Robert Bly, Hoffman, Professor Ruha Benjamin, Audra Loure, Dr. Sharon Blackie, Gillette and Moore, J.R.R. Tolkien, Joseph Campbell, Dr. Alexander Shaia, Dr. Bernard Loomer, Patricia Adams Farmer, Richard Beck, David H. Kelsey, Copernicus, C. Baxter Kruger, Richard Rohr OFM, Hermes Trismegistus, Alain of Lille, Blaise Pascal, Fr. Thomas Keating, Cynthia Bourgeault, Hans Urs von Balthasar, Dr. Bradley Jersak, Bayo Akomolafe, Lars Tornstam, Rumi, Ernest Becker, Dr. John Swinton, Linda Stone, Theodore Roosevelt, Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D., Felicia Murrell, Marshall McLuhan, David Altheide, Walter Ong, Parisi, David Whyte, Rene’ Girard, Dr. Jim Wilder, Jane Hardwicke Collings, Erick Erickson, Robert Kegan, John O’Donohue.
Current Endorsements:
“This book not only masterfully explores a vital topic, but is important to me personally. I was affirmed, but more important, deeply challenged. It called me to ‘look, listen, and learn,’ and offered an invitation to be a grander, more loving presence in the world, especially as I approach the winter of my life.
Paul Young, author The Shack. (more)
“Having crossed the threshold of sixty years, my felt need for guided ‘eldering’ is acute. The disorientation around aging in the face of a shortening future to be expected, and I’m recognizing how the decline in health, energy, work, and potential losses (e.g., of a spouse) lurk in one’s mind. I’ve become convinced that my capacities twenty years from now will depend on how I reorient myself today. But I needed David to suggest ‘decentering’ as the surprising solution for meaning-making. Decenter Everything! Who knew? I’m all in.”
Bradley Jersak. Principal, St. Stephen’s University (more)
“David Tensen is a poet, soul-whisperer, and spiritual provocateur whose words carry the weight of experience and the wonder of transformation. Decenter Everything isn’t a book you read—it’s a mirror, a mentor, and a map. It invites us to a path that many of us instinctively long for but rarely name: the way of becoming more by centering less.”
Jason Clark. Author of Leaving and Finding Jesus, God Is (Not) In Control, and host of Rethinking God with Tacos Podcast. www.afamilystory.org
“This is a book I will return to again and again—not only for its wisdom and insight, but for the grace and hope it offers. It reminds us that the role of a decentric elder is not just honourable—it is a sacred gift to be shared. Read it. Reflect on it. You may never see your own journey the same way again.”
Dr. Glenn Williams. CEO. LCP GLobal
“I love David. Not just for his intellect or eloquence, but for his courage to tell the truth gently, to lead without shouting, to age without hardening. He’s doing the work. And this book is part of that work—his offering to the sacred conversation of becoming. I have had the privilege of knowing David Tensen as both a dear friend and a fellow seeker of life’s deeper truths. David is a thoughtful and perceptive soul—well-read, deeply reflective, and endlessly compassionate. Many know him as a gifted poet and writer, but fewer realise the depth of his experience as a counsellor and guide, having spent countless hours walking alongside others, especially leaders, through their own seasons of transformation.”
Gary Grant – Senior Leader . Friends First Community, Melbourne, Australia
“Blending personal and spiritual insight, multidisciplinary research, and deep compassion, Decenter Everything is a timely and much-needed guide for the journey toward true maturity. If you’ve ever longed for a generous elder soul to bless your path, David’s words offer deep comfort and practical guidance. I anticipate returning to it again and again.”
Jonathan Puddle, author of You Are Enough: Learning to Love Yourself the Way God Loves You (more)
“How can the wonder we feel under a clear night sky become a way of life? How can our lives sing with the wild at daybreak? How can we face our last sunset with grace and gratitude knowing we lived well? David’s invitation into “decentric wisdom” is desperately needed in an age of acquisition where the promise of greatness has come at the cost of the earth, the expense of the poor, and an alienation from our own soul. I commend David to you as a companion in the work of finding our lives by losing them in the generative service of others.”
Jarrod McKenna. Award Winning Social Change Educator, Activist and Pastor (jarrodmckenna.com)
Foreword by psychologist and author Tara Boothby
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