Sort Your Ship Out – Navigating Relational Seas

Sort Your Ship Out – Navigating Relational Seas

(4-minute read) “I don’t get it, I thought we were friends! I leave the team, and boom, I’m cut off and no one contacts me anymore.” Sound familiar? In working with leaders across organisations, you come across many cases of ‘disappointment’ stemming...
The best thing you can say about my kids.

The best thing you can say about my kids.

When you’re a parent, it’s not uncommon for people who meet your kids and spend time with you to comment on them, in some way. Those comments vary as much as the people who are delivering them. We often laugh at how someone might be trying to pass a comment they think...
Accountability Shift. When it’s good to care less.

Accountability Shift. When it’s good to care less.

She’s laying on her bed, iPad in hand. Eyes fully fixed on the screen. “What are you up to?” These are five words my teenage daughter is used to hearing from her parents as they pop their head across the threshold of her bedroom. The speed and tone...
What right do you have Grandma?

What right do you have Grandma?

A few years ago I heard John Sandford teach that once a child leaves home into adulthood,  ‘Parents do not have a right to enter their adult child’s life. Instead, being involved in their life is a privilege given by invitation.’ I think this is...